The Indian bridal tradition of Mehndi

Mehndi has found its way into western culture in the form of henna tattoos, however its significance is hugely symbolic in the Indian marriage tradition. Although the designs and customs differ depending upon the region the family originate from, the importance of the bride’s Mehndi remains constant.

The Mehndi or henna design is an intricate artwork which comes to form a temporary skin decoration covering the bride’s feet, including the soles, and her hands and palms. The mother-in-law must paint the first dot of ink on to the bride’s skin and the deeper the colour, the greater the love she will receive from her in-laws; a deep colour Mehndi also foretells of a happy and love filled marriage. However brides do have alternative motives for wanting their Mehndi to last longer; the custom is that a bride must wait until her design has completely faded before performing any housework.

Popular Mehndi designs include the peacock, the national bird of India, an elephant with a raised trunk which is a symbol of good luck and the lotus flower which signifies purity. It is also customary to have the bride and grooms names concealed amongst the design, the groom must find both names before the wedding night can begin. In some parts of Pakistan, Nepal, Bangladesh and Sudan, the groom is also painted with a Mehndi design however this is rare and the tradition is more commonly associated with the bride.

Designs and symbols differ, some incorporate jewels and glitter to create an ornate spectacle, others use block colours on the tips of toes and fingers, however the essence of the custom remains the same. Ultimately Mehndi symbolises love, fertility and prosperity and is an integral part of the bride’s transition from single woman to wife.